Dictionaries tend to define love as deep affection or fondness. I never thought this word would be added into world dictionary. I never thought that someone would give me its wonderful meaning. A feeling of strong attachment induced by that which delights or commands admiration; preeminent kindness or devotion to another. We may be right in our definition of love but I think and feel that it's much much more than that. And to whoever has found the love, well done, good job! It's a piece of hard work which you do because you enjoy it. your definition of "love" vs. "being in love" with someone in a relationship are what you are doing now.